Proclivity

When I was a teenager living in Kerala, I remember standing at the bus stop with my father one day. My father and I loved to take the bus and head out to town, leaving our scooter behind. An elderly woman stood beside us. It was a hot day and she looked rather tired. My father started a conversation and soon we knew where she was going and much more. As the bus approached us, my father asked her to take care. I remember her looking at us and smiling.

During our bus ride, I asked my father, why he always talked to strangers. He replied, “A stranger could be God in disguise…always be kind and good to people, what does one gain by being the opposite?”. Over the years, my imperfect father taught me many valuable lessons. The one that has impacted me the most is – when in doubt, be kind.

I cannot understand a person’s proclivity to see the worst in others…what does one really gain?

 

What Makes a Good Life?

In the last few months since returning to Vancouver from overseas, I have realised how fast and furiously our world is changing. There’s disruption in every sphere of our lives and the future of work is at a crossroads. In the midst of all of all of this – people continue to ponder on the pursuit of happiness which seems more elusive than ever.

Dr. Waldinger’s  TED talk, titled “What Makes a Good Life? Lessons from the Longest Study on Happiness,” in 2015,  has been viewed more than 13,000,000 times and is worth watching.  It’s good to be reminded that what matters most is meaningful relationships and connections to communities.